Not Interested… Or Just Shy?!
If the girl you are interested in does not look back at you when you look at her and does not play with her hair you might think that she is not interested in you because of her body language. However, this is not always the case. She might just be shy! It is absolutely critical to understand body language attraction in a shy woman because all the hints and vibes that other women normally give out might not be present with her. There are some signs that a shy girl is interested even if she does not seem like she is. You just have to watch out for them to determine whether she is not interested at all or whether she is just shy!
A shy girl is not likely to hold your look. She will glance at you instead and when your eyes meet it will only happen for a few seconds at a time. Watch for her arms. After you make eye contact with each other she is likely to start moving around a little bit more because she is nervous. She could be twiddling her fingers, fixing her bracelet or playing with a ring. These are all solid indications that you have made her nervous and that is good news. It means she likes you!
There is another very easy tell-tale sign that a woman’s body gives you when you are interested in her, especially if she is shy. She blushes! Blushing is a great indication that a woman is interested in you. There are other physiological responses that her body will do automatically if she is attracted to you. Watch for her pupils to expand when you approach her or during conversation.
Also look at her gestures. Is she being receptive to you? If her arms are crossed over her body then chances are that she is simply not interested in the things that you have to say. Remember that you are not the only thing that could be affecting her body language that day so try to speak to her a few times in different settings before you decide whether she is interested in you or not.
Check out where she is pointing her shoulders and the palms of her hands. If she is showing you her hands this is a good indication that she is interested in you. If she is pointing her shoulders at you while you are talking that is also a good indication that she is interested. If she has started to lean forward towards you then that is also a pretty good indicator of her interest level.
Another thing you can do is glance her way every now and then when you guys are not together. if you catch her glancing or you catch her friends looking at you or giggling then congratulations, she likes you! It might seem a bit juvenile but it makes sense for a shy girl to share her attraction towards you with her friends before she shares it with you.